Feeling hurt and angry, what would you do?

Oh good grief grow up. So what if they said these things. YOU are the childs mother and YOU made your choices just as they did. So they talked about you...this is what happens when some females get together and one female in the family isn't present. If it were you and one of the women and the other one wasn't there you'd be "gossiping" about her. Get over yourself. No do NOT confront them. It is over it is done with time to grow up and move on.